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Molly Barker, a four-time Hawaii Ironman Triathlete, established Girls on the Run® in
August of 1996 to celebrate the gifts of girlhood and to address what
she calls Girl-Box issues. A former competitive athlete, Molly holds a
Masters in Social Work from the University of North Carolina at Chapel
Hill and is a former high school teacher and track coach. She has also
worked as a college counselor at a small private college addressing the
needs of women with eating disorders, alcohol and substance abuse
problems and depression.
The
product of Molly's experience, Girls on the Run is one way to provide
pre-adolescent girls with enabling tools to embrace their girlhood gifts
as they enter middle and high school, and then on into adulthood.
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From Founder, Molly Barker
In
1976, I bought my first pair of running shoes. I was fifteen and like
most girls that age, trying to figure out who I was inside a changing
body. I desperately wanted to fit in with the popular crowd but I
couldn't fit into the box it placed over my spirit. The box told me
things I knew in my heart weren't true: That the way I behaved and
looked was more important than who I was inside. That being a woman
meant being quiet and submissive. That having a boyfriend meant having
to mold my body and actions to meet prescribed cultural standards. But I
stepped in anyway. The years I spent trying to mold my thoughts, body,
lifestyle and being into what the box required were extremely painful. So
I ran. I'd put on my running shoes and head for the woods, the streets,
wherever my feet would take me. I felt strong. Beautiful. Powerful. July
7th, 1993 - I remember it well. I put on my running shoes and went for a
sunset run. I am not sure during what point of the run the box
disappeared, but like a glass womb it shattered around me and pushed me
out, born to an entirely new freedom. It was a moment of personal
awakening. A
year later I began to write the Girls on the Run curriculum. The
concept, however, was born long before. It was born in 8th grade when a
boy in my class told me that I looked like a boy. It was born when a
young woman, weighing 85 pounds and starving herself, told me she needed
to lose weight to be beautiful. It was born when a pregnant
thirteen-year-old and I took a long walk in the woods. Girls
on the Run is a lot more than a running program. It will, I believe,
lead to an entire generation of girls living peacefully and happily
outside of the Girl Box. In
the year 2030, I'll be 70. My daughter will be 32. If I have anything
to say about it, she will never have to climb out of the Girl Box. Girls
on the Run will shatter these constraints, like the spirit did for me
that July night and help her and other girls feel comfortable simply
being themselves.
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